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Tweet of the month (March 2024)

Soccer is growing in popularity at an exponential rate in the US. TV Networks, Sponsors, Pundits, Coaches, Agents, Social Media Influencers, all are seizing the opportunities daily. Most seek an immediate remuneration; while others look for increasing likes or followers. Very few though, attempt to grow the sport without a premeditated benefit. I believe, the tweet below attempts to educate the public in a impartial manner by commenting on the benefits of playing both high school soccer and club soccer. Is there really a need to choose one over the other? The tweet captures the opinion of a spectrum of individuals from different walks of life. It is a quick read so if you can, take the time to read it as your soccer player either prepares to go through this phase or will undergo this decision in the near future.

For our family, neither of the boys was able to play high school soccer due to their USSF academy commitments. Unfortunately, that is a decision that we’ll have to live with for the rest of our lives. Without sounding too dramatic, it would have been the first (ok second) time the boys would have ever played on the same team. Flip side is that the time they did not spend on a high school team together was utilized to play at a semi-professional level that eventually allowed them to be currently playing at a professional level.

With Joana, we made sure she didn’t miss out on the high school playing experience and she has taken that opportunity on stride. She is also very fortunate to have a supportive club coach who allows his players to concurrently play high school and club soccer. Truth be told, this flexibility is really available due to the large roster he purposedly carries. In short, Joana’s team can easily field two full teams of 11 players with subs included at any given point. In the end, it’s a win-win situation for everyone involved. Players can play both high school and club soccer (even pursue other non HS soccer activities), and coach is remunerated nicely by carrying a large paying roster. Most importantly though, we parents can brag about their kids’ uber-competitive soccer experiences.

Unfortunately in our case and to echo the content of the tweet, I have also heard club coaches (ours included) comment about how high school players tend to pick up “bad habits” during HS soccer season. Therefore, the tweet above hits right at home with club coaches who constantly talk down the entire high school experience making it seem inferior. At least in Joana’s case, her high school soccer coach soccer knowledge and experience is far longer (and superior) than that of her club’s coach. In the end, we have figured out a way to use both mentors to mold her into the excellent player she has become. She is improved so much in the last two years thanks to both coaches who supplement each other quite nicely along with what we do at home.

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Tweet of the month (December 2023)

In memory of the now defunct Twitter (now “X”) app., and to commemorate the 100th post of this blog, I have decided to enrich my publications by adding a “Tweet of the month” post every month highlighting a tweet/post that I have come across that “caught my eye” or was brought to my attention. The criterion for inclusion is simple, it contains information about a member of the Gómez’s clan accompanied by a hot take. In this case, it’s only the 12th of the month and I can already select the winner for December:

For more loving tweets, keep following us. BTW, the year in review will come out next week. You can find 2022’s year in review here. #theGomezway

Popularity of a footballer/public figure

I still remember that Saturday morning, August 31st, 2019 when Johan as a recently-turned 18 year old, was announced by FC Porto as their new youth international signing. Our family was at the nationally acclaimed youth tournament Plano Labor Day (north of Dallas) with Joana and the phone wouldn’t stop ringing. We received congratulatory messages from folks whom we hadn’t talked to in years. Some, casually texted to congratulate me personally (as if it were my achievement), while others casually requested an FC Porto jersey. Eventually, I think we fulfilled every single one of those jersey requests but I digressed…it was at that moment that it truly hit me, Johan (and eventually Jogo) was becoming a public’ish figure.

Johan signs with FC Porto 08.31.19

Just like any other occupation, the career of any professional footballer has its ups and downs; however, being a public figure is a tad different. As an example, it never ceases to amaze us how during difficult times (ex. injuries, lack of playing time, relegation, COVID, coaching changes, etc.), the same “friends/fans” who were extremely supportive in great times, go completely missing during tough times.

Among Johan’s long list of footballing achievements is to have played the Portuguese derby Porto B (1) vs Benfica B (1)

We understand that the popularity roller-coaster comes with the life of a footballer which, these days, is magnified by social media. But, from our family’s perspective, it’s probably prudent to share that any type of positive support is (always) more appreciated and welcomed especially during challenging times. I often tell the kids that rough times build character and it is also a time when true friendships are built and strengthened.

Recently, Jogo wasn’t playing much in the first few games of the 2023-2024 La Liga 2 season with his new club. It was understandable, at least for his family, as his loan was finalized late in the transfer window and he wasn’t present for pre-season with his new club. In any case, we hadn’t heard from many fans in a while. But in the last five games, he created an own goal, had two assists (see one below), and then two hockey assists and suddenly, he’s “popular” again.

In conjunction with Jogo’s recent contributions in La Liga 2, US Soccer announced that Johan was called for the US U23 MNT camp in preparation for the 2024 Paris Olympics. Suddenly, the calls pertaining to Johan once again, resumed to our family.

This time, it wasn’t only the calls that resumed; our boys youth club Solar, for the first time ever, had an Instagram post dedicated to Johan (and our good childhood friend JT). Honestly, we had never seen his former club recognize either of our boys but hey, kudos of any form are always welcome, especially if it’s convenient for the club as well.

The Olympic camp went well (writing a post on it) and Johan even scored the first goal (below) against a superior Japanese team. Once again, the calls, messages, and tweets were abundant; even the convenient #DTID patreon tweets returned. Please don’t exhaust them all guys, we will need some of those in upcoming tough times.

As a favor to me, direct future congratulatory calls/texts to the boys. In Johan’s case, he’s the one who has fought for these opportunities the most, who went to Europe 4.5 years ago, who likely would have played in the Indonesia 2021 U20 WC until COVID chose to be a life protagonist and has opened doors for his brother and sister. Reach out to him, congratulate him; I am sure he would love to hear from you. Either way, please know that our family TRULY appreciates your support at ALL times but it’s inevitably most needed when footballing life gets tough 6000 miles away from home.

Johan Gomez: U16 BNT: U16s (3) vs Sacramento Republic (1) 09.08.16 (Sacramento, CA)

Yesterday, the celebrity world reminded us that public figures are humans and that they sometimes need help too. Mental health is important, don’t wait to reach out to other footballers (American or not) who may be going through difficult times (ex. Tyler Adams, Daryl Dyke, Josh Sargent, etc.). Be present, it can be a difference maker. Until next time #theGomezway #mentalhealth

RIP Matthew Perry
U-20 US team vs U23 UAE. Johan scored one goal.